Subject: 54M in Sydney Seeking Petite, Fun-Loving Woman for Long-Term Connection

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G’day, I’m EJ, a 54-year-old widower based in Sydney, NSW. I’m a laid-back, funny, and warm-hearted bloke looking for a meaningful connection with a petite, slim woman who’s mature and open to the unique dynamics of an age-gap relationship. I’m particularly drawn to Asian women (a crush that started in my teens) but am open to anyone who’s confident, kind, and, most importantly, has her own eyebrows.

About Me:

• Background & Lifestyle:
  I spent 30 years in the fire service, living an active, fast-paced life. Now, due to a spine injury a couple of years ago, I’m embracing a slower lifestyle. I enjoy photography (soccer, portrait, boudoir), storytelling, and indulging my sweet tooth. I quit smoking in 2016, and can’t be around smokers now, and I enjoy the occasional cider or spirit.

• Entertainment:
  My music tastes are best described as eclectic – anything from acid jazz and funk, disco to hard rock, city pop and a Capella, or metal to classical. I read, I also write, mostly action & crime, and love watching documentaries about almost anything. I’ll watch action, martial arts, wuxia, thrillers, fantasy and of course James Bond and Star Wars were my favourites growing up. I’m a massive history nerd too. 

• Values & Beliefs:
  I’m an outspoken atheist with no time for religion, bigotry, or closed-mindedness. I’m left-leaning and a proud ally of the LGBTQIA+ community, with a gay child and another with a non-binary partner. Cheating is an absolute deal-breaker. I’m here for honesty, loyalty, and someone who values a true partnership.

• Personality:
  I’m a natural-born storyteller, an award-winning photographer, and a funny bastard with a knack for finding humour in life’s absurdities. I swear a lot (Aussie, through and through) but balance it out with being affectionate and practical.

• Physical Details:
  I’m 5’10”, 110kg, with a relaxed sense of style. I’m content in my own skin and looking for someone who values connection over aesthetics.

What I’m Looking For:

I’m seeking a petite, slim woman who’s emotionally mature and appreciates a paternal dynamic in a relationship. If you’re young and looking for guidance and stability, or simply someone who sees value in experience and wisdom, we’ll likely click. I’m not interested in having more kids and would happily get a vasectomy to ensure that’s off the table.

Location-wise, I’d prefer someone local, but I’ve contemplated relocating to Southeast Asia for its rich culture and lower cost of living. I’m all in for something long-term and meaningful.

If this sounds like your cup of coffee (or pear cider), I’d love to hear from you. Let’s create something authentic together—full of laughter, stories, and genuine connection.